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Thursday, September 30, 2010
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
iOffer: A Place to Buy, Sell & Trade
iOffer: A Place to Buy, Sell & Trade:
Seller Fees: We invoice on the 1st of every month only if your balance for seller fees is $2.00 or more. Your card will be charged on the 8th unless you have gone into your account and manually made the payment prior to that date. Fees are due regardless of payments from buyers having been received. Of course for errors, or Non Paying Buyers we do fully refund your seller fees. See File Non Paying Buyer
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Effective April 16th 2010
| Transaction Amount (with shipping) | Final Value Fee (FVF) | |
|---|---|---|
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| $5.00 to $9.99 | $0.75* | |
| $10.00 to $24.99 | $1.25* | |
| $25.00-$99.99 | 5% of the final sale price* | |
| $100.00-$1499.99 | $5.00 + 2.5% of the final sale price over $100.00* | |
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| Real Estate | FREE | |
| Swaps (or trades) | $1.00 (flat fee for both swappers) |
Seller Fees: We invoice on the 1st of every month only if your balance for seller fees is $2.00 or more. Your card will be charged on the 8th unless you have gone into your account and manually made the payment prior to that date. Fees are due regardless of payments from buyers having been received. Of course for errors, or Non Paying Buyers we do fully refund your seller fees. See File Non Paying Buyer
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STAIND - SCHIZOPHRENIC CONVERSATIONS LYRICS
STAIND - SCHIZOPHRENIC CONVERSATIONS LYRICS:
Are you afraid
Afraid of the truth
In the mirror staring back at you
The image is cracked
But so is the view here
And the strength of a tree
Begins in the roots
That I tend to bury into you
At least now the storm
Can't blow me away
So crawl inside
My head with me
I'll show you how
It feels to be
To blame like me
Should I be afraid
Of this face that I see
In the mirror staring back at me
So cold were the days
When I listened to you
And you say that I'm weak
So show me the proof
Because I still exist inspite of you
But I won't compete
With you every day
So crawl inside
My head with me
I'll show you how
It feels to be
To blame like me
Schizophrenic conversations that I'm always having with myself
I hear these
Voices in my head competing, maybe I could use a little help
I still have
Schizophrenic conversations when there's no one else around to hear
I long for
Solitude and peace within me, void of all the anger and the fear
So crawl inside
My head with me
And I'll show you how it feels to be
Fucked up like me
I'll show you how it feels to be
To blame like me
Ashamed like me
Are you afraid
Afraid of the truth
In the mirror staring back at you
The image is cracked
But so is the view here
And the strength of a tree
Begins in the roots
That I tend to bury into you
At least now the storm
Can't blow me away
So crawl inside
My head with me
I'll show you how
It feels to be
To blame like me
Should I be afraid
Of this face that I see
In the mirror staring back at me
So cold were the days
When I listened to you
And you say that I'm weak
So show me the proof
Because I still exist inspite of you
But I won't compete
With you every day
So crawl inside
My head with me
I'll show you how
It feels to be
To blame like me
Schizophrenic conversations that I'm always having with myself
I hear these
Voices in my head competing, maybe I could use a little help
I still have
Schizophrenic conversations when there's no one else around to hear
I long for
Solitude and peace within me, void of all the anger and the fear
So crawl inside
My head with me
And I'll show you how it feels to be
Fucked up like me
I'll show you how it feels to be
To blame like me
Ashamed like me
Sunday, September 26, 2010
Best of Lizzy Borden cd new For Sale
Best of Lizzy Borden cd new For Sale
Best of Lizzy Borden cd new
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Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 039841405224
stk 8118121523102114425
Tracks/songs
1. Me Against the World 5:03
2. American Metal 5:53
3. Notorious 4:16
4. Master of Disguise 7:22
5. Psychopath 3:39
6. Eyes of a Stranger 4:28
7. Red Rum (Live) 4:49
8. Ultra Violence 4:09
9. Live and Let Die (Live) 3:40
10. Give Em the Axe 2:53
11. Love Kills 5:25
12. Love Is A Crime 5:32
13. Lord of the Flies 5:44
14. Rod of Iron 4:30
Best of Lizzy Borden cd new
Ships international.
Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 039841405224
stk 8118121523102114425
Tracks/songs
1. Me Against the World 5:03
2. American Metal 5:53
3. Notorious 4:16
4. Master of Disguise 7:22
5. Psychopath 3:39
6. Eyes of a Stranger 4:28
7. Red Rum (Live) 4:49
8. Ultra Violence 4:09
9. Live and Let Die (Live) 3:40
10. Give Em the Axe 2:53
11. Love Kills 5:25
12. Love Is A Crime 5:32
13. Lord of the Flies 5:44
14. Rod of Iron 4:30
Best of Nylons cd new For Sale
Best of Nylons cd new For Sale
Best of Nylons cd new
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Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 019341030829
stk 118121523102114425
Tracks/songs
1. That Kind of Man
2. Kiss Him Goodbye
3. The Lion Sleeps Tonight
4. Up the Ladder to the Roof
5. Please
6. Happy Together
7. Drift Away
8. Stepping Stone
9. Bop Till You Drop
10. Chain Gang
11. Up on the Roof
12. Prince of Darkness
13. Poison Ivy
14. Combat Zone
15. Wildfire
16. The Stars Are Ours
Best of Nylons cd new
Ships international.
Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 019341030829
stk 118121523102114425
Tracks/songs
1. That Kind of Man
2. Kiss Him Goodbye
3. The Lion Sleeps Tonight
4. Up the Ladder to the Roof
5. Please
6. Happy Together
7. Drift Away
8. Stepping Stone
9. Bop Till You Drop
10. Chain Gang
11. Up on the Roof
12. Prince of Darkness
13. Poison Ivy
14. Combat Zone
15. Wildfire
16. The Stars Are Ours
Battle of Los Angeles Rage Against The Machine cd new For Sale
Battle of Los Angeles Rage Against The Machine cd new For Sale
Battle of Los Angeles Rage Against The Machine cd
Ships international.
Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 074646963029
stk 8118121523102114425
Tracks/songs
1. Testify 3:32
2. Guerrilla Radio 3:26
3. Calm Like A Bomb 4:58
4. Mic Check 3:33
5. Sleep Now In The Fire 3:25
6. Born Of A Broken Man 4:40
7. Born As Ghosts 3:22
8. Maria 3:48
9. Voice Of The Voiceless 2:31
10. New Millennium Homes 3:44
11. Ashes In The Fall 4:37
12. War Within A Breath 3:36
Battle of Los Angeles Rage Against The Machine cd
Ships international.
Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 074646963029
stk 8118121523102114425
Tracks/songs
1. Testify 3:32
2. Guerrilla Radio 3:26
3. Calm Like A Bomb 4:58
4. Mic Check 3:33
5. Sleep Now In The Fire 3:25
6. Born Of A Broken Man 4:40
7. Born As Ghosts 3:22
8. Maria 3:48
9. Voice Of The Voiceless 2:31
10. New Millennium Homes 3:44
11. Ashes In The Fall 4:37
12. War Within A Breath 3:36
Another Saturday Night Louisana Bayous Rockabilly cd For Sale
Another Saturday Night Louisana Bayous Rockabilly cd For Sale
Another Saturday Night Louisana Bayous Rockabilly cd new
Another Saturday Night Classic Recordings From The Louisiana Bayous
Various Artists - Rock - Rockabilly, Various Artists - International - North America - Cajun/ Zydeco
Ships international.
Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 029667128827
stk 8118121523102114425
Tracks/songs
1. Before I Grow Too Old - Tommy McLain
2. I'm A Lonesome Fugitive - Belton Richard
3. Try To Find Another Man - Tommy McLain & Clint West
4. Jole Blon - Vin Bruce
5. I Cried - Cookie & His Cupcakes
6. Oh Lucille - Belton Richard
7. Who Needs You So Bad - Gary Walker
8. Don't Mess With My Man - Margo White
9. Opelousas Sostan - Rufus Jagneaux
10. The Great Pretender - Carol Fran
11. Another Saturday Night - Clint West
12. Another Sleepless Night - Belton Richard
13. Promised Land - Johnnie Allan
14. Two Step De Bayou Teche - Austin Pitre
15. Sweet Dreams - Tommy McLain
16. Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Cookie & His Cupcakes
17. Laisser Les Cajuns Dancer - Belton Richard
18. If You Want Good Lovin' - Donnie Jacobs
19. Downhome Music - Rufus Jagneaux
20. Georgie Lou - Cajun Gold
Another Saturday Night Louisana Bayous Rockabilly cd new
Another Saturday Night Classic Recordings From The Louisiana Bayous
Various Artists - Rock - Rockabilly, Various Artists - International - North America - Cajun/ Zydeco
Ships international.
Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 029667128827
stk 8118121523102114425
Tracks/songs
1. Before I Grow Too Old - Tommy McLain
2. I'm A Lonesome Fugitive - Belton Richard
3. Try To Find Another Man - Tommy McLain & Clint West
4. Jole Blon - Vin Bruce
5. I Cried - Cookie & His Cupcakes
6. Oh Lucille - Belton Richard
7. Who Needs You So Bad - Gary Walker
8. Don't Mess With My Man - Margo White
9. Opelousas Sostan - Rufus Jagneaux
10. The Great Pretender - Carol Fran
11. Another Saturday Night - Clint West
12. Another Sleepless Night - Belton Richard
13. Promised Land - Johnnie Allan
14. Two Step De Bayou Teche - Austin Pitre
15. Sweet Dreams - Tommy McLain
16. Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Cookie & His Cupcakes
17. Laisser Les Cajuns Dancer - Belton Richard
18. If You Want Good Lovin' - Donnie Jacobs
19. Downhome Music - Rufus Jagneaux
20. Georgie Lou - Cajun Gold
Andrew Bees Militant Reggae & Ska cd vg For Sale
Andrew Bees Militant Reggae & Ska cd vg For Sale
Andrew Bees Militant Reggae & Ska cd vg
CD/compact disc in very good condition.
Case has scuffs UPC 702328181125
Track listing
1. Struggle and Strive
2. Man of No Conscience
3. Life in the Ghetto
4. Militant
5. Live and Love Jah Jah
6. What Is Life? Life Is to Live!
7. Be Good
8. One Life
9. Warning
10. Time Get Dread
11. Ain't No Sunshine
12. Things a Gwan, Things a Go Dung
13. Concrete Jungle
Record Label: Music Lion
Andrew Bees Militant Reggae & Ska cd vg
CD/compact disc in very good condition.
Case has scuffs UPC 702328181125
Track listing
1. Struggle and Strive
2. Man of No Conscience
3. Life in the Ghetto
4. Militant
5. Live and Love Jah Jah
6. What Is Life? Life Is to Live!
7. Be Good
8. One Life
9. Warning
10. Time Get Dread
11. Ain't No Sunshine
12. Things a Gwan, Things a Go Dung
13. Concrete Jungle
Record Label: Music Lion
Saturday, September 25, 2010
All His Hits Bill Doggett cd new For Sale
All His Hits Bill Doggett cd new For Sale:
All His Hits Bill Doggett cd new
Ships international.
Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 012676500920
stk 8118121523102114425
1. Big Dog Blues (Part One) 2:47
2. Moondust 3:10
3. High Heels 2:43
4. As You Desire Me 2:53
5. Honky Tonk (Part 1) 3:04
6. Slow Walk 2:34
7. Sweet Lorraine 2:28
8. Don't Get Around Much Anymore 2:21
9. Ram-Bunk-Shush 2:31
10. Soft 2:31
11. Blip Blop 2:47
12. Hold It 2:31
13. Smokie (Part Two) 3:04
14. Honky Tonk (Part 2) 2:34
All His Hits Bill Doggett cd new
Ships international.
Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 012676500920
stk 8118121523102114425
1. Big Dog Blues (Part One) 2:47
2. Moondust 3:10
3. High Heels 2:43
4. As You Desire Me 2:53
5. Honky Tonk (Part 1) 3:04
6. Slow Walk 2:34
7. Sweet Lorraine 2:28
8. Don't Get Around Much Anymore 2:21
9. Ram-Bunk-Shush 2:31
10. Soft 2:31
11. Blip Blop 2:47
12. Hold It 2:31
13. Smokie (Part Two) 3:04
14. Honky Tonk (Part 2) 2:34
Empire Strikes Back Soundtrack 2 disc cd SE LN For Sale
Empire Strikes Back Soundtrack 2 disc cd SE LN For Sale: "- Sent using Google Toolbar"
1971-84 Good Side of Tomorrow Dave Loggins cd For Sale
1971-84 Good Side of Tomorrow Dave Loggins cd For Sale
1971-84 Good Side of Tomorrow Dave Loggins cd
Ships international.
Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 612657010921
stk 8118121523102114425
Track Listings
1. Good Side Of Tomorrow
2. Pieces Of April
3. Claudia
4. Touch Of Pennsylvania
5. Sister Mary Ryan
6. Please Come To Boston
7. Someday
8. Girl From Knoxville
9. Sunset Woman
10. Second Hand Lady
11. Wonder'n As The Days Go By
12. Movin' To The Country
13. I'm Gonna Farm You Off My Mind
14. Goodbye Miss Sadness
15. Saviour Of My Natural Life
16. Ship In A Bottle
17. Goodbye Eyes
18. Please Remember Me
19. So Much For Dreams
20. The Fool In Me
21. Tell Me Anything But The Truth
22. Nobody Loves Me Like You Do
1971-84 Good Side of Tomorrow Dave Loggins cd
Ships international.
Cd/compact disc is brand new and sealed.
UPC 612657010921
stk 8118121523102114425
Track Listings
1. Good Side Of Tomorrow
2. Pieces Of April
3. Claudia
4. Touch Of Pennsylvania
5. Sister Mary Ryan
6. Please Come To Boston
7. Someday
8. Girl From Knoxville
9. Sunset Woman
10. Second Hand Lady
11. Wonder'n As The Days Go By
12. Movin' To The Country
13. I'm Gonna Farm You Off My Mind
14. Goodbye Miss Sadness
15. Saviour Of My Natural Life
16. Ship In A Bottle
17. Goodbye Eyes
18. Please Remember Me
19. So Much For Dreams
20. The Fool In Me
21. Tell Me Anything But The Truth
22. Nobody Loves Me Like You Do
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Monday, September 20, 2010
Johann Sebastian Bach Well Tempered Clavier Part 1 2 - eBay (item 380271076179 end time Oct-20-10 01:02:06 PDT)
Johann Sebastian Bach Well Tempered Clavier Part 1 2 - eBay (item 380271076179 end time Oct-20-10 01:02:06 PDT):
Johann Sebastian Bach Well Tempered Clavier Part 1 2
Johann Sebastian Bach Well Tempered Clavier Part 1 2
2 Cd/compact disc box set
Condition: VG
Johann Sebastian Bach
CD 1 No. 2 DDD
The Well Tempered Clavier Part 1/I
1.Prelude and Fugue 1 C major BMV 846
2.Prelude and Fugue 2 C minor BWV 847
3.Prelude and Fugue 3 C sharp major BWV 848
4.Prelude and Fugue 4 C sharp minor BWV 849
5.Prelude and Fugue 5 D major BWV 850
6.Prelude and Fugue 6 D minor BWV 851
7.Prelude and Fugue 7 E flat major BWV 852
8.Prelude and Fugue 8 E flat minor BWV 853
9.Prelude and Fugue 9 E major BWV 854
10.Prelude and Fugue 10 E minor BWV 855
11.Prelude and Fugue 11 F major BWV 856
12.Prelude and Fugue 12 F minor BWV 857
CD 2
J.S. Bach: The Well-Tempered Clavier Part1/II
1.Prelude and Fugue 13 F sharp major BWV 858
2.Prelude and Fugue 14 F sharp minor BWV 859
3.Prelude and Fugue 15 G major BWV 860
4.Prelude and Fugue 16 G minor BWV 861
5.Prelude and Fugue 17 A flat major BWV 862
6.Prelude and Fugue 18 G sharp minor BWV 863
7.Prelude and Fugue 19 A major BWV 864
8.Prelude and Fugue 20 A minor BWV 865
9.Prelude and Fugue 21 B flat major BWV 866
10.Prelude and Fugue 22 B flat minor BWV 867
11.Prelude and Fugue 23 B major BWV 868
12.Prelude and Fugue 24 B minor BWV 869
UPC 400024958651
Harpsichord: Christiane Jaccottet 1989
Made in Germany Manufactured by Pilz Compact Disc,Kranzberg/GermanyFully Loaded by Oaktown's 357 (CD, Aug-1991, Bust It... - eBay (item 380271059553 end time Oct-19-10 22:51:52 PDT)
Fully Loaded by Oaktown's 357 (CD, Aug-1991, Bust It... - eBay (item 380271059553 end time Oct-19-10 22:51:52 PDT):
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very good condition.
UPC 077779299621
Track Listing/Songs
1. It's Not Your Money
2. Turn It up (With Tata Vega)
3. Honey
4. Come Back to Me (Miss U)
5. It's Really Goin' On
6. Smoother Than Silk
7. Respect
8. Smoothin'
9. That's Why Were Doin' It
10. All Over You
11. Comin' Harder
12. Load the 3.5.7
13. Use What We Got
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very good condition.
UPC 077779299621
Track Listing/Songs
1. It's Not Your Money
2. Turn It up (With Tata Vega)
3. Honey
4. Come Back to Me (Miss U)
5. It's Really Goin' On
6. Smoother Than Silk
7. Respect
8. Smoothin'
9. That's Why Were Doin' It
10. All Over You
11. Comin' Harder
12. Load the 3.5.7
13. Use What We Got
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Mercy Streets by Original Soundtrack (CD, Oct-2000, ... - eBay (item 380271058215 end time Oct-19-10 22:41:53 PDT)
Mercy Streets by Original Soundtrack (CD, Oct-2000, ... - eBay (item 380271058215 end time Oct-19-10 22:41:53 PDT):
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UPC 026297182328
Track Listing
1. Run On - Moby
2. Love - Sixpence None the Richer (remix)
3. If You Really Want It - Gospel Gangstaz/Frost'T
4. Gonna Make You Move - AJ Mora
5. Little More, A - Jennifer Knapp
6. When All Around Has Fallen - Delirious?
7. Time Traveling - Faith Massive
8. Madness for Love - Cloud2Ground
9. Safe and Sound - Audity
10. No Accident - Antidote
11. Tambourine - Steffan Fantini
12. Currently - Keaton Simons
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UPC 026297182328
Track Listing
1. Run On - Moby
2. Love - Sixpence None the Richer (remix)
3. If You Really Want It - Gospel Gangstaz/Frost'T
4. Gonna Make You Move - AJ Mora
5. Little More, A - Jennifer Knapp
6. When All Around Has Fallen - Delirious?
7. Time Traveling - Faith Massive
8. Madness for Love - Cloud2Ground
9. Safe and Sound - Audity
10. No Accident - Antidote
11. Tambourine - Steffan Fantini
12. Currently - Keaton Simons
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Hustler 3 * by Malone (CD, Jun-2005, Walkerboy Ent. ... - eBay (item 380271057406 end time Oct-19-10 22:36:44 PDT)
Hustler 3 * by Malone (CD, Jun-2005, Walkerboy Ent. ... - eBay (item 380271057406 end time Oct-19-10 22:36:44 PDT):
Track listing
1. Intro
2. As I've Seen It
3. Truth, The
4. U Wit Dat Feat. Twista
5. Brother Skit
6. Wherever U R
7. Radio I
8. Life I Lead
9. Speak on It
10. Told U Feat. Cash Money Millionaires
11. Dirty South
12. Carmel Queen
13. Radio II
14. Recognize Real Feat. Too Short
15. My Business Feat. Boo da Boss Playa & Kamikazee of Crooked Letta
16. Family Tree II Feat. Karen Brown
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UPC 660355222122
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Track listing
1. Intro
2. As I've Seen It
3. Truth, The
4. U Wit Dat Feat. Twista
5. Brother Skit
6. Wherever U R
7. Radio I
8. Life I Lead
9. Speak on It
10. Told U Feat. Cash Money Millionaires
11. Dirty South
12. Carmel Queen
13. Radio II
14. Recognize Real Feat. Too Short
15. My Business Feat. Boo da Boss Playa & Kamikazee of Crooked Letta
16. Family Tree II Feat. Karen Brown
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UPC 660355222122
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Sigo Siendo Rico [CD/12"] [Maxi Single] [ECD] by Ger... - eBay (item 380271055165 end time Oct-19-10 22:14:10 PDT)
Sigo Siendo Rico [CD/12"] [Maxi Single] [ECD] by Ger... - eBay (item 380271055165 end time Oct-19-10 22:14:10 PDT):
Track listing
1. Sigo Siendo Rico - (radio edit)
2. Sigo Siendo Rico - (Fernando G's extended mix)
3. Sigo Siendo Rico - (Mijango's Latin mix)
4. Sigo Siendo Rico - (Mijango's tribal mix)
5. Sigo Siendo Rico - (Mijango's dub)
6. Sigo Siendo Rico - (enhanced video)
Details
Distributor: Universal Distribution
Recording type: Studio
Recording mode: Stereo
SPAR Code: n/a
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UPC 720657231328
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1. Sigo Siendo Rico - (radio edit)
2. Sigo Siendo Rico - (Fernando G's extended mix)
3. Sigo Siendo Rico - (Mijango's Latin mix)
4. Sigo Siendo Rico - (Mijango's tribal mix)
5. Sigo Siendo Rico - (Mijango's dub)
6. Sigo Siendo Rico - (enhanced video)
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Recording type: Studio
Recording mode: Stereo
SPAR Code: n/a
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De La Soul Shopping Bags She Got From You PA - eBay (item 380271053878 end time Oct-19-10 22:01:55 PDT)
De La Soul Shopping Bags She Got From You PA - eBay (item 380271053878 end time Oct-19-10 22:01:55 PDT):
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Title: De La Soul Shopping Bags (She Got From You)
Format: Audio CD
Primary Artist: De La Soul
Release Date: 2004
Record Label: Sanctuary Records
Recording Type: Single
UPC: 5050159032600
De La Soul Shopping Bags She Got From You PA
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Condition: Disc VG, Case has scuffs & tape residue
PA Parental Advisory Explicit Content
UPC 5050159032600
1. Shopping Bags (She Got From You) 3:57
2. The Grind Date Dirty Version 3:23
3. The Grind Date Dirty Acapella 3:20
4. The Grind Date Instrumental 3:23
2004 Sanctuary Records
SANXD326
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Title: De La Soul Shopping Bags (She Got From You)
Format: Audio CD
Primary Artist: De La Soul
Release Date: 2004
Record Label: Sanctuary Records
Recording Type: Single
UPC: 5050159032600
De La Soul Shopping Bags She Got From You PA
Cd/compact disc single
Condition: Disc VG, Case has scuffs & tape residue
PA Parental Advisory Explicit Content
UPC 5050159032600
1. Shopping Bags (She Got From You) 3:57
2. The Grind Date Dirty Version 3:23
3. The Grind Date Dirty Acapella 3:20
4. The Grind Date Instrumental 3:23
2004 Sanctuary Records
SANXD326
Import Made in the E.U. LC6448
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Down Bad [PA] by Most Wanted Boys (CD, Oct-2001, Mos... - eBay (item 380271048057 end time Oct-19-10 21:19:50 PDT)
Down Bad [PA] by Most Wanted Boys (CD, Oct-2001, Mos... - eBay (item 380271048057 end time Oct-19-10 21:19:50 PDT):
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1. Intro
2. Say Dat Then - (featuring Juvenile)
3. U Don't See
4. Up'n da Club
5. Everyday
6. Glocks Out
7. Tear It Down
8. Keys to the Lex
9. N.O. to B.R.
10. Ni@@az Like Ya'll - (featuring Lil' Flip)
11. Don't Be Scurred
12. Runnin' from the Popo's
13. Most Wanted Boys
14. Down South - (featuring Snoop Dogg)
15. Chickenz
16. What We Die For
17. Beef Cookin'
18. Tryna Kick It
19. U Don't See - (Club Mix)
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1. Intro
2. Say Dat Then - (featuring Juvenile)
3. U Don't See
4. Up'n da Club
5. Everyday
6. Glocks Out
7. Tear It Down
8. Keys to the Lex
9. N.O. to B.R.
10. Ni@@az Like Ya'll - (featuring Lil' Flip)
11. Don't Be Scurred
12. Runnin' from the Popo's
13. Most Wanted Boys
14. Down South - (featuring Snoop Dogg)
15. Chickenz
16. What We Die For
17. Beef Cookin'
18. Tryna Kick It
19. U Don't See - (Club Mix)
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UPC 802755000928
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In My City by Miscellaneous (R&B) (CD, Feb-2000, Uni... - eBay (item 380271047382 end time Oct-19-10 21:13:40 PDT)
In My City by Miscellaneous (R&B) (CD, Feb-2000, Uni... - eBay (item 380271047382 end time Oct-19-10 21:13:40 PDT):
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Tracks/songs
1. In My City (Intro)
2. Kill 'Em All
3. Metaphoration
4. Another Day Another Dollar
5. Gotta Hustle
6. Greatest M.C.
7. Hold My Own
8. Fuck Dre (& Aftermath)
9. Oh Lord (Street Shit)
10. Bounce!!!
11. C.E.O. Rap (Skit)
12. Are You Down?
13. Such A Lady
14. The Author
15. War
16. All the Fruits (the Whole Click)
17. The Beginning (Outro)
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1. In My City (Intro)
2. Kill 'Em All
3. Metaphoration
4. Another Day Another Dollar
5. Gotta Hustle
6. Greatest M.C.
7. Hold My Own
8. Fuck Dre (& Aftermath)
9. Oh Lord (Street Shit)
10. Bounce!!!
11. C.E.O. Rap (Skit)
12. Are You Down?
13. Such A Lady
14. The Author
15. War
16. All the Fruits (the Whole Click)
17. The Beginning (Outro)
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Nickel Sack [PA] by Moe Geeked (CD, Oct-2000, Wall S... - eBay (item 380271046486 end time Oct-19-10 21:06:39 PDT)
Nickel Sack [PA] by Moe Geeked (CD, Oct-2000, Wall S... - eBay (item 380271046486 end time Oct-19-10 21:06:39 PDT):
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Genre: Rap & Hip Hop
Duration: Album or EP Sub-Genre: --
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1. Follow We
2. 21 About It
3. Smoke Some
4. Never Saved
5. Twerk Sum
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Producer: DJ Jawan
Distributor: Select-O-Hits
Recording type: Studio
Recording mode: Stereo
SPAR Code: n/a
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Personnel includes: Nikia Rickett (vocals).
Recorded in Birmingham, Alabama.
Portions of this page Copyright 1988 - 2010 MSI Music Corp. All rights reserved.Portions of this page Copyright 1948 - 2010 Muze Inc. All rights reserved.
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Genre: Rap & Hip Hop
Duration: Album or EP Sub-Genre: --
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1. Follow We
2. 21 About It
3. Smoke Some
4. Never Saved
5. Twerk Sum
Details
Producer: DJ Jawan
Distributor: Select-O-Hits
Recording type: Studio
Recording mode: Stereo
SPAR Code: n/a
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Personnel includes: Nikia Rickett (vocals).
Recorded in Birmingham, Alabama.
Portions of this page Copyright 1988 - 2010 MSI Music Corp. All rights reserved.Portions of this page Copyright 1948 - 2010 Muze Inc. All rights reserved.
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Live from Hollygrove [PA] by Skip (CD, Oct-2001, Tow... - eBay (item 380271043613 end time Oct-19-10 20:48:02 PDT)
Live from Hollygrove [PA] by Skip (CD, Oct-2001, Tow... - eBay (item 380271043613 end time Oct-19-10 20:48:02 PDT):
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| 1. Intro - (featuring Live Wire) 2. Pimps/Players - (featuring Corey Cee) 3. Nigger What - (featuring Young Buck/Wacko) 4. Lap Top 5. Let Me - (featuring Wacko/Corey Cee) 6. Black Robin Hood 7. Big Thangs - (featuring Young Buck/Wacko) 8. Keep It Gangsta - (featuring Young Buck/Wacko) 9. Don't F*** Wit'em 10. Murder, Murder 11. Broke and Lonely - (featuring Billy Cook) 12. Make It Happen 13. Three Kids 14. All Trapped In - (featuring Wacko/Corey Cee) 15. Strip Bitch - (featuring Papa Rue) 16. Wac and Skip - (featuring Wacko) 17. Git Got 18. We Don't Play - (featuring UTP Playas) 19. Pimps/Players - (radio, bonus track) | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| Contributing artists: | Billy Cook, Corey Cee, Live Wire, Papa Rue, Skip, UTP Playas, Wacko, Young Buck | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Distributor: | Sumthing Distribution | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Recording type: | Live | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Recording mode: | Stereo | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| SPAR Code: | n/a | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| Personnel includes: Skip, Corey Cee, Live Wire, Young Buck, Wacko, Billy Cook, Papa Rue, UTP Playas. Producers include: Juvenile, DJ Divine, Dre, Cool, Pied Piper. Engineers include: Paul Francis, Eric Brown, John "JP" Pegram. Recorded at Da 'Ice House, New Orleans, Louisiana; Relentless, Houston, Texas; Love Shack, Sound Stage, Recording Arts Studios, Nashville, Tennessee. Audio Mixers: Sean Henderson; Karl Heilbron; Eric Brown; Paul Francis. Recording information: Da' Ice House Recording Studios, New Orleans, LA; Love Shack Studios, Nashville, TN; Recording Arts Studios, Nashville, TN; Relentless Studios, Houston TX; Sound Stage Studios, Nashville, TN. The southern gangsta sound of Skip's debut album LIVE FROM HOLLYGROVE is full of laid-back, funky grooves and confidently delivered rhymes about the thug life. This combination is hardly a new paradigm, but as he shows throughout this disc, Skip has the sound down cold. Though he portrays himself as the hardest gangsta on the block, detailing the violence and crime in which he immerses himself, Skip is no jar-headed thug. Its cold, hard cash that he's really after, as he declares "I heard rap pays so now I'm pursuin' that," and rhapsodizes about the more high-tech tools of his trade, such as "laptops, two-way pagers." As LIVE FROM HOLLYWOOD makes clear, Skip is a gangsta who knows how the game works and how to play it. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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The Origins of Sagging Your Jeans…
The Origins of Sagging Your Jeans…:
I am a woman that prefers to see men wearing pants that fit right-- not too tight, not too loose.Snug enough you can see the curve of a behind instead of baggy underwear that
looks like you're carrying a load back there. A man's rearend is one of the sexiest things
about him.
Males wearing oversized baggy pants above their knees (or at their ankles)
especially pants so baggy
they have to hold them up with their hands, reminds me of a LITTLE BOY wearing his
daddy's pants. I say "Pull your pants up, baby! I don't want to see your thang!"
or better yet, grow up,get some pants your own size and quit trying to look like BIG DADDY.
I am a woman that prefers to see men wearing pants that fit right-- not too tight, not too loose.Snug enough you can see the curve of a behind instead of baggy underwear that
looks like you're carrying a load back there. A man's rearend is one of the sexiest things
about him.
Males wearing oversized baggy pants above their knees (or at their ankles)
especially pants so baggy
they have to hold them up with their hands, reminds me of a LITTLE BOY wearing his
daddy's pants. I say "Pull your pants up, baby! I don't want to see your thang!"
or better yet, grow up,get some pants your own size and quit trying to look like BIG DADDY.
Saturday, September 18, 2010
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Signs of An Abused Woman | Battered Women | Emotional, Psychological and Mental Abuse
Signs of An Abused Woman Battered Women Emotional, Psychological and Mental Abuse
Because they have not witnessed your partner acting abusively, friends and family members often do not understand or believe. Abusers are usually excellent actors, therefore, many people outside your home may only know your partner as a "wonderful person" or a "really great guy." Little do they suspect how cruel and spiteful your partner truly is.
Closed door abuse, in whatever form it takes... breaks hearts. We are left alone to wonder... Why does he treat me like this? Why only me? Why not anyone else?
When our partner abuses us in any way, our self-esteem and self-worth begin to wither and die. We may think there is something "wrong" with us. We may begin to feel that we are not likeable or loveable. We may turn to drugs or alcohol to help us cope. We feel shamed... eventually we may feel angry and enraged.
Please be aware: When anger is hidden or buried or turned inward... it can often make itself known through "depression." We may think, feel and honestly believe that we are suffering with depression, but in truth, we are quietly eating ourselves up with repressed rage over feeling hurt, humiliated and isolated.
Nobody has the right to abuse anyone else, ever.
Many women think or believe, that if they are not being physically harmed by their partner, then they are not being abused. This is far from true. If you are in a relationship which is draining something from you... you might not have recognized that your partner is eroding your self-esteem and happiness through verbal, mental, emotional and other forms of abuse.
The following is a list of ways to tell if someone is abusing you without physically touching you:
Discounting: Does the abuser ignore or disparage your feelings? Do they put down your feelings? Do they dismiss you with statements such as, "you're too sensitive" or "you don't have a sense of humour" or "you're just taking it wrong"?
Withholding: Does the abuser stop speaking to you when they're displeased? Do they ignore you? Do they withdraw affection in order to punish you?
Countering: Does the abuser tell you you're wrong if you don't agree with them? Do they argue against your every thought? Do they tell you your feelings are wrong? Do they tell you that you don't know what you're talking about? Do they forbid you from having your own opinions?
Ridicule [Verbal Abuse Disguised as Jokes]: Does the abuser make fun of you? Do they ridicule you regarding subjects about which you are particularly sensitive? Do they seem to enjoy it? Do they accuse you of not being able to take a joke? Do they use sarcasm to put you down?
Blocking and Diverting: Does the abuser change the subject when you try to bring something up? Do they divert serious discussions by accusing you of various things?
Accusing and Blaming: Does the abuser blame you for everything that goes wrong? Do they accuse you of hurting them when you tell them your feelings? Do they accuse you of having affairs? Are they jealous?
Trivializing: Does the abuser belittle what you say? Do they dismiss your feelings or accomplishments? Do they insult you when you express pride in your own abilities? Do they act as if your work is no big deal?
Under-mining: Does the abuser squelch your enthusiasm with insensitive comments such as, "You wouldn't understand", or "You'll never make it"? Do they sabotage your ideas by pointing out all the ways in which they might fail? Do they interrupt you when you need time alone?
Threatening: Does the abuser threaten you, overtly or covertly? Do they threaten you with violence? Do they threaten you with emotional pain? Do they threaten you with knives, guns or some other weapon?
Name-calling: Does the abuser use vulgarities to insult you? Do they call you cruel names? Do they use terms of endearment with intense sarcasm?
Forgetting: Does the abuser make a promise and then "forget" to keep it? Do they pretend not to remember certain incidents or discussions? Do they pretend not to remember prior agreements?
Ordering: Does the abuser order you to do something instead of asking? Do they demand things?
Judging and Criticizing: Does the abuser find fault with everything you do? Do they tell you that you "ought to" or "should" do things a certain way?
Denial: Does the abuser deny that certain things happened? Do they tell you that they didn't say something, or that you never saw something occur?
Abusive Anger: Does the abuser erupt into a rage when they are angry? Do they scream, yell, or shout? Do they hurl obscenities? Does their body language become more aggressive? Do they stomp, strut, hit things, or hit you? Do they become red in the face? Do they throw things?
Do they physically get in your way, or follow you from room to room? Do they snap at you? Are they usually irritable? Does all of this usually take place in private, when you are alone? [It's a sure sign things are escalating if the abuser attacks you in public.]
Refusal to Accept Responsibilty: Does the abuser blame you for their anger?
The abuser exhibits anger by destroying the victim's favorite possessions that are thrown against the wall, a gift he gave during courtship, a pet puppy is kicked, a family heirloom destroyed, etc. The objects chosen for destruction are aimed at hurting the victim emotionally as well as a demonstration of power and control.
Occasionally the objects destroyed are selected randomly, but the destruction is still purposeful. To make a point, objects are thrown or destroyed and the victim never knows when the assaults on property will turn into physical assaults. As is consistent with battering and abuse of any type, the victim is usually blamed for causing the outburst or destruction of the property.
This type of violence normally does not stay contained within the area of property and pets, but escalates to include violence directed physically toward the victim. Don't ignore the danger of this type of abuse!
Financial Abuse or Exploitation: Does your abuser control how you spend money, where you work and what property you buy? Spend all family income including your money or savings? Use credit cards without your permission; destroying your credit rating? Force you to turn over your benefit payments?
Spiritual Abuse: Does your abuser put down or attack your spiritual beliefs? Not allow you to attend the church, synagogue or temple of your choice? Force you to join or stay in a cult?
Sexual Abuse: Does your abuser touch you or act in a sexual way that you don't want? Force or pressure you into sexual acts? Not let you have information and education about sexuality? Infect you with HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases?
Neglect and Isolation: Does your abuser not let you see a doctor or dentist? Take away TTY, hearing aids or a guide dog? Lock you in the house without a phone? Not allow you to take courses such as ESL (English as a Second Language) or other educational classes?
How many of these abusive things has your partner done to you?
Do you feel nervous around him?
Do you have to be careful to control your behavior or what you say to avoid his anger or bad temper?
Do you feel pressured by him when it comes to sex?
Are you afraid of disagreeing with him?
Does he make you feel ashamed, embarrassed or humiliated?
Does he make you feel like you are wrong, stupid, crazy, worthless, or inadequate?
Do you ever feel scared around him because of him violent or threatening behavior?
Do you often do things to please him, rather than to please yourself?
Do you feel that nothing is ever good enough for him?
Are you being abused?
Trust your gut feeling...
"One of the best ways to tell if you are being abused is to trust your gut feeling. This is a difficult task, if your abuser has managed to make you doubt your own sanity, but it is vital to your survival and healing.
Certainly, if they are physically abusing you, there will be scratches, bites, bruises, cuts, and other injuries to indicate what's going on.
Remember that assaulting and battering someone is a criminal offense, and you don't deserve it no matter how old or young you are, how mad the person became, or whether you were having a heated argument with them beforehand."
As the saying goes: "Your right to hit me ends where the end of my nose begins." - Maia
Psychological and emotional battering, through verbal abuse, accompanies physical battering. It kills your spirit. It cripples your self-esteem and your sense of self-worth. In many ways, this type of abuse does far more damage and long-term devastation than do physical blows. Unfortunately, with this type of abuse, it can't be recognized as easily as a black eye, a bruise or a broken bone... and it almost always occurs behind closed doors.Because they have not witnessed your partner acting abusively, friends and family members often do not understand or believe. Abusers are usually excellent actors, therefore, many people outside your home may only know your partner as a "wonderful person" or a "really great guy." Little do they suspect how cruel and spiteful your partner truly is.
Closed door abuse, in whatever form it takes... breaks hearts. We are left alone to wonder... Why does he treat me like this? Why only me? Why not anyone else?
When our partner abuses us in any way, our self-esteem and self-worth begin to wither and die. We may think there is something "wrong" with us. We may begin to feel that we are not likeable or loveable. We may turn to drugs or alcohol to help us cope. We feel shamed... eventually we may feel angry and enraged.
Please be aware: When anger is hidden or buried or turned inward... it can often make itself known through "depression." We may think, feel and honestly believe that we are suffering with depression, but in truth, we are quietly eating ourselves up with repressed rage over feeling hurt, humiliated and isolated.
Psychological and Emotional Battering Through Verbal Abuse
Nobody has the right to abuse anyone else, ever.
Many women think or believe, that if they are not being physically harmed by their partner, then they are not being abused. This is far from true. If you are in a relationship which is draining something from you... you might not have recognized that your partner is eroding your self-esteem and happiness through verbal, mental, emotional and other forms of abuse.
The following is a list of ways to tell if someone is abusing you without physically touching you:
Discounting: Does the abuser ignore or disparage your feelings? Do they put down your feelings? Do they dismiss you with statements such as, "you're too sensitive" or "you don't have a sense of humour" or "you're just taking it wrong"? Withholding: Does the abuser stop speaking to you when they're displeased? Do they ignore you? Do they withdraw affection in order to punish you? Countering: Does the abuser tell you you're wrong if you don't agree with them? Do they argue against your every thought? Do they tell you your feelings are wrong? Do they tell you that you don't know what you're talking about? Do they forbid you from having your own opinions? Ridicule [Verbal Abuse Disguised as Jokes]: Does the abuser make fun of you? Do they ridicule you regarding subjects about which you are particularly sensitive? Do they seem to enjoy it? Do they accuse you of not being able to take a joke? Do they use sarcasm to put you down? Blocking and Diverting: Does the abuser change the subject when you try to bring something up? Do they divert serious discussions by accusing you of various things? Accusing and Blaming: Does the abuser blame you for everything that goes wrong? Do they accuse you of hurting them when you tell them your feelings? Do they accuse you of having affairs? Are they jealous? Trivializing: Does the abuser belittle what you say? Do they dismiss your feelings or accomplishments? Do they insult you when you express pride in your own abilities? Do they act as if your work is no big deal? Under-mining: Does the abuser squelch your enthusiasm with insensitive comments such as, "You wouldn't understand", or "You'll never make it"? Do they sabotage your ideas by pointing out all the ways in which they might fail? Do they interrupt you when you need time alone? Threatening: Does the abuser threaten you, overtly or covertly? Do they threaten you with violence? Do they threaten you with emotional pain? Do they threaten you with knives, guns or some other weapon? Name-calling: Does the abuser use vulgarities to insult you? Do they call you cruel names? Do they use terms of endearment with intense sarcasm? Forgetting: Does the abuser make a promise and then "forget" to keep it? Do they pretend not to remember certain incidents or discussions? Do they pretend not to remember prior agreements? Ordering: Does the abuser order you to do something instead of asking? Do they demand things? Judging and Criticizing: Does the abuser find fault with everything you do? Do they tell you that you "ought to" or "should" do things a certain way? Denial: Does the abuser deny that certain things happened? Do they tell you that they didn't say something, or that you never saw something occur? Abusive Anger: Does the abuser erupt into a rage when they are angry? Do they scream, yell, or shout? Do they hurl obscenities? Does their body language become more aggressive? Do they stomp, strut, hit things, or hit you? Do they become red in the face? Do they throw things?Do they physically get in your way, or follow you from room to room? Do they snap at you? Are they usually irritable? Does all of this usually take place in private, when you are alone? [It's a sure sign things are escalating if the abuser attacks you in public.]
Refusal to Accept Responsibilty: Does the abuser blame you for their anger?[ Psychological & Emotional Battering from Maia's abuse survivor site. Thank you for making this information available ]
Destruction of Property and Pets
Another type of abuse manifests itself in the form of destruction of property and pets. Unlike physical or sexual violence, this form of battering is done without actually attacking or ever touching the victim's body. It is, nevertheless, an assault on the victim.
With this type of abuse, the destruction is not random.The abuser exhibits anger by destroying the victim's favorite possessions that are thrown against the wall, a gift he gave during courtship, a pet puppy is kicked, a family heirloom destroyed, etc. The objects chosen for destruction are aimed at hurting the victim emotionally as well as a demonstration of power and control.
Occasionally the objects destroyed are selected randomly, but the destruction is still purposeful. To make a point, objects are thrown or destroyed and the victim never knows when the assaults on property will turn into physical assaults. As is consistent with battering and abuse of any type, the victim is usually blamed for causing the outburst or destruction of the property.
This type of violence normally does not stay contained within the area of property and pets, but escalates to include violence directed physically toward the victim. Don't ignore the danger of this type of abuse!
Other Abusive Acts and Behaviors
Financial Abuse or Exploitation: Does your abuser control how you spend money, where you work and what property you buy? Spend all family income including your money or savings? Use credit cards without your permission; destroying your credit rating? Force you to turn over your benefit payments? Spiritual Abuse: Does your abuser put down or attack your spiritual beliefs? Not allow you to attend the church, synagogue or temple of your choice? Force you to join or stay in a cult? Sexual Abuse: Does your abuser touch you or act in a sexual way that you don't want? Force or pressure you into sexual acts? Not let you have information and education about sexuality? Infect you with HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases? Neglect and Isolation: Does your abuser not let you see a doctor or dentist? Take away TTY, hearing aids or a guide dog? Lock you in the house without a phone? Not allow you to take courses such as ESL (English as a Second Language) or other educational classes?How does your partner treat you?
How many of these abusive things has your partner done to you?
- Has he ignored your feelings? Does he ridicule or insult women as a group?
- Has he ridiculed or insulted your most valued beliefs, your religion, race, heritage or class?
- Does he withhold approval, appreciation or affection as punishment?
- Has he continually criticized you? Called you names? Shouted at you?
- Does he humiliate you in private or public? Has he refused to socialize with you?
- Has he kept you from working? Controlled your money? Made all decisions? Has he refused to work or share money?
- Does he play mind games on you? Does he tell you you're crazy or sick?
- Has he taken car keys or money away from you?
- Does he threaten to leave you or tell you to leave? Has he manipulated you with lies and contradictions?
- Has he threatened to hurt you or your family? Has he abused, tortured, killed pets to hurt you?
- Does he harass you about affairs he imagines you are having? Does he say that he will kill or hurt herself if you break up with him?
- Has he destroyed objects or furniture? Kicked holes in walls? Broken appliances?
- Has he wielded a gun or weapons in a threatening way?
- Does he tell you that if you changed he wouldn't get angry with you? Does he have a short temper that escalates intensely if you oppose him?
- Does he make excuses for him abuse by saying it's because of alcohol, drugs or something you did?
- Does he always check up on you or question you about what you do when he is not around?
- Does him jealousy and control stop you from seeing friends or family? Does he prevent you from going out or doing things you want to do?
Does he do any of these things?
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[ Does he do any of these things? from drirene.com. Thank you for making this information available ]
How do you feel around your partner?
Do you feel nervous around him? Do you have to be careful to control your behavior or what you say to avoid his anger or bad temper? Do you feel pressured by him when it comes to sex? Are you afraid of disagreeing with him? Does he make you feel ashamed, embarrassed or humiliated? Does he make you feel like you are wrong, stupid, crazy, worthless, or inadequate? Do you ever feel scared around him because of him violent or threatening behavior? Do you often do things to please him, rather than to please yourself? Do you feel that nothing is ever good enough for him?Your situation is critical if the following applies to you:
- You express your opinions less and less freely.
- You find yourself walking on eggshells, careful of when and how to say something.
- You long for that softer, more vulnerable part of your partner to emerge.
- You find yourself making excuses for your partner's behavior?
- You feel emotionally unsafe.
- You feel its somehow not OK to talk with others about your relationship.
- You hope things will change...especially through your love and understanding.
- You find yourself doubting your memory or sense of reality.
- You doubt your own judgment.
- You doubt your abilities.
- You feel vulnerable and insecure.
- You are becoming increasingly depressed.
- You feel increasingly trapped and powerless.
- You have been or are afraid of your partner.
- Your partner has physically hurt you, even once.
[ Situation Critical... from drirene.com. Thank you for making this information available ]
Feeling scared, humiliated, pressured or controlled is not the way you should feel in a relationship. If you have those feelings listen to them. They are telling you that something is very wrong with your relationship. "Emotional abuse is underneath all other types of abuse.The most damaging aspect of abuse is the trauma to our hearts and souls from being betrayed by the people that we love and trust." - Robert Burney |
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